Holy cow, parenthood. I've had all sorts of people ask: was it what you expected? Absolutely not. Don’t get me wrong, I love and adore my child, but no one told me anything I actually needed to know to prepare for her arrival, lol. It’s like some hidden secret and it slaps you in the face once they’re born. Why does no one feel the need to share the raw truths of parenthood? 

I don’t want to s…